Novel Writing for Non-Conformists

Kayaking with Joanie

I spotted this title on the new non-fiction shelf at the library recently: The Art of Insubordination: How to Dissent & Defy Effectively by Todd B. Kashdan, PhD. Based on that compelling title, I checked it out and then read it cover to cover.

My husband noticed me reading it and wondered why. “You’re already good at that,” he said. I smiled. I have a natural tendency toward insubordination and non-conformity.

“But I’m not good at making people listen to me,” I said, thinking specifically about my last full-time job. “That’s what I need to learn.”

Kashdan’s book is funny and full of useful strategies, both for my fellow non-conformists and for folks who’d like to do a better job of listening to us. Here’s how he wrapped it up:

“Non-conformity is a vital part of being human, a potential consequence of our inherent individuality. We all possess a unique genotype, life history, and personality profile. Our mix of interests, aspirations, and social relationships are different from anyone else’s. As you use this book, remember that what will most benefit the world is not what you share in common with others but what sets you apart. Push hard into your uniqueness and help others do the same. Do it boldly and compassionately. Whether you succeed or not, it’s the only way to reach your human potential.” (Pg. 195)

About the same time that I was finishing Kashdan’s book, I received a weekly newsletter from Dan Blank, who helps writers become better at marketing their books. His subject line was “Don’t fit in.”

Here’s part of what Dan said: “Today, I simply want to encourage you to embrace sharing who you are in an authentic manner, and sharing that with others. Sure, sometimes it may not feel like you “fit in,” and that’s just fine. In fact, that is sometimes preferred.”

When I see the same message pop up twice in different sources, I pay attention.

So what does non-conformity/fitting in have to do with writing?

Being willing to follow your own ideas and stay true to your own creative vision takes guts. Especially when it makes you different—in a good way—from the majority of writers. (I’m not referring to writers who are violating conventions like producing a 200,000-word fantasy novel for middle grade readers.)

I applaud you. I support you.

Because it can be a long, hard slog if you can’t find someone else who understands what you’re trying to do and wants to help you do it.

Can I guarantee that working with me will land you an agent or a publishing deal? Of course not. There are too many variables at work.

But if your goal is to be published in the traditional way, I can help you combine a marketable idea with outstanding execution and create a book that only you can write.

If you have some non-conformist tendencies, if you feel like your writing doesn’t fit in, then you and I may well be a good writer-coach fit.

You’re welcome to see for yourself by setting up a time to talk with me or just by emailing me your questions: bookcoach@micheleregenold.com.